I'm a 42 year old male, with short grey (fading from brown) hair, blue eyes, and a grey beard with some remainders of reddish brown. I'm nearly legally blind, but my vision is corrected with contacts (or very occasionally glasses). I'm about 5'9", and somewhat overweight, though I'm fighting a slow battle to try and get that under control.
I've been married to alymid, for nearly 15 years now, and we've been together for 15. We are polyamorous, but not generally outspoken about it (any more). I've been in poly relationships since 1991.